1.Spending time apart strengthens your bond.
Sure, it's important to hang out with your guy. But experts now know that it's almost as important not to hang out with him every so often. "When you take time away from each other, it gives you both the opportunity to collect new thoughts, new stories, and new ideas to share. When you are distant with your love ones you will have many time to think about him. So by the time you meet you will never have boring moments because you will have many things to say with each other.
2.Your inkling that something is wrong in the relationship is probably right.
By nature of being a woman, you have a keen intuition, so you'll feel any kind of distancing on a visceral level pretty quickly. And unless you're an overly suspicious or insecure person -- you know who you are! -- you should always trust your gut. When a guy rarely send emails or text message than the usual it only means one thing that he wants to have space and that he wants to break up with you.
Inkling means a slight indication or suggestion : hint , clue.
3.If a man has a history of cheating on his girlfriends, he'll probably cheat on you too.
Sometimes a guy cheats on his partner because there is an emotional or physical void in the relationship. But more often than not, philandering is indicative of something wrong with him. Many guys two-time because they love the thrill of the chase, they need to feed their ego, or they have a hard time turning down a woman when the opportunity presents itself.
Philandering means have casual or illicit sex with a woman or with many women ; especially : to be sexually unfaithful to one's wife.
4. He wants to think he's taking care of you.
Despite the fact that many women are outpacing men on the college level and in the workplace, "lots of guys still derive their feelings of masculinity and self-worth by being of value to the person they love. Men love to ask women for a dinner or lunch to show that they care for her.
5. If a guy tells you that he's not ready for a relationship, take his word for it.
Believe it or not, men really hate to disappoint women. So if he's "gotten up the guts to actually cross the threshold and tell you that he's not ready for a relationship, he means business. If this happens to you it only means that he doesn't see you as a girlfriend material and he wants to meet other women.
6. Passion can grow as a relationship progresses.
People used to think settling down meant saying goodbye to romance and passion. But research has found that young married couples are more satisfied in the romance department than their single counterparts are. Familiarity definitely has its perks. Couples who have been together for a long time have probably learned how to please each other and are more comfortable sharing their fantasies and desires to keep the romance alive.
7. You won't regret breaking up with a guy you're feeling unsure about.
Nowadays, women may be impulsive about dating guys but not dumping them. "In fact, a lot of single women will try really hard to fit a square peg into a round hole because they want the relationship to work so bad.